When smoking was cool

Why some people smoke is beyond me. I do not smoke. I grew up in a family of nicotine-addicted smokers and I have never understood the attraction. Smoking, in my observation, is a dirty habit. Cigarette ashes in trays, the smell of smoke in the air, the staleness that settles upon a room and people is hard to overcome. In short, smoking is dirty and unhealthy. As an individual, I am the opposite and smoking goes against my grain.

I remember being a little girl, maybe 5 years old, and watching my father’s lit cigarette swirl blue smoke up, up, and up, in a trail similar to that left in the sky by jets, I thought. This fascinated me. I would watch until it disappeared and my eyes would return to the lit cigarette and follow a new stream of pretty, blue smoke. Little did I know, the damage done by something so seemingly innocuous. My father had a smoker’s cough. I can still hear it in my mind. Pretty, blue smoke inhaled by my dad filled his lungs and calmed him. It was good in his mind. The fact is it nearly killed him years later.

Death by smoking takes years of damage to accomplish. Nicotine is a slow poison. Many years ago, smoking was socially acceptable and there were few restrictions as to where one could smoke. Social acceptance of smoking is the cause of many health issues today suffered by the baby-boomer generation such as my parents, when smoking was cool. The table has turned on smoking in recent decades. Smoking has fallen in favor; it is no longer cool.

I tried smoking cigarettes as a young teenager. My sister would laugh at my half-hearted inhaling. How anyone can do this, I thought as I coughed and choked trying to regain my breath. That may be the biggest reason why I do not smoke. I tried it at an impressionable age but did not succumb to addiction. A smoker’s hack is nothing to envy. Respiratory distress is uncomfortable and scary. Why do that to yourself?

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Karen Julius is a health and wellness communicator, writing about health issues and policy decisions that affect health.

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Karen Julius is a health and wellness communicator, writing about health issues and policy decisions that affect health.


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  • Casey

    I also grew up in a family of smokers and watched many of them die very painful, premature deaths. I can only understand it in the context of an addiction because I just don’t understand why anyone would want to engage in something so toxic. Honestly, I am furious with tobacco companies and the tactics they use. They are truly drug dealers in my opinion, regardless of whether it is legal or not. An argument can be made for alcohol being legal, as it is not addictive to everyone and it is possible to use it socially. I know of very few “social smokers.” Smokers are addicts, nicotine is an addiction and I would like to see it acknowledged and treated as such, instead of us being afraid to speak out for fear of offending people.

    • http://Karenjulius.com kjulius

      Hi Casey, Thanks for your comments. Nicotine is an addiction and in my opinion, it’s as bad an addiction as any. I will keep your thoughts in mind to write further about this topic.

      Thanks again,
      Karen

  • Maureen

    It’s so hard Karen, I watched my Mom smoke for the first 18 years of my life, till a heart attack took her from us. She always said that she started because it was “cool”. I never got that, I’m the only one out of 6 siblings who never smoked. I still have siblings that do, even given my Moms history and thier own health issues? It must be such an addiction? I’m just thankful that Ive never had to deal with it myself. Great minds think alike :-)

    • http://Karenjulius.com kjulius

      Hi Maureen, Thanks for your comment. My sister is a heavy smoker and she just turned 40. I worry about her. Addiction is something I will write about.

      Best,
      Karen